… Until the universe begins to repeatedly smack you over the head with it.
Want a relationship with someone? Back off and see if you’re good enough friends. If you are, people will start asking if you’re a couple.
Want to earn money doing what you love? Back off and see if you do enough good work. If you do, people will start asking if you’re for sale.
Want more friends? Back off of the chase, go to places you like, and be yourself. If there’s friend material around, they’ll come to you.
Bottom Line: Just set your goals and have fun. When the time is ripe (and in most cases, overripe), you’ll have an abundance of results, especially when you’re not looking. 
And if you’re the impatient sort, remember that the more stuff you do (and the more fun you have), the quicker they’ll come. 
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Followed you over from Pavlina’s. FWIW, I’m interested in what you have to say.
That can be good advice, and I’d say unfortunately that’s how I’ve always done things.
Unfortunately because it’s often hard to replicate that first inspirational fire. Everything just kinda cools off.
There’s definitely something gained by holding back though. Perspective, I guess.
Plus doing crap for its own sake leads to all the other crap. I mean, this is THE answer to life. No kidding.
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